It’s not easy for me to talk about this, but I’ll tell my story anyway. I was due to get married, but a few months before my wedding, by chance, I met up with my soulmate whom I’ve not seen in 13 years. We met, as friends, but that quickly led to an affair. Suddenly I was unable to connect with my fiance ​on any level – emotionally, sexually, physically. I ended the affair and needless to say, we did get married in the end, but for the next 6 months after I had this immense guilt and was literally unable to have intercourse with my husband. It was so painful and most of the time it felt like I was being cut with lots of blades. It hurt like hell! I needed help. I found Ghitta and her Vaginismus Treatment Therapy and she connected the dots. I actually did not know before-hand why sex had become to painful, but through her sessions, we got to the real reason behind the problem, which is the story I just told. Now, I can finally be intimate with my husband again. In fact, sex has never been so good! I can only thank Ghitta for this, otherwise, I am sure my relationship would’ve been on the rocks.

Annonymous, 2011, London

Ghitta helped me with her Vaginismus Treatment Therapy in a way I never even knew was possible. I have seen quite a few doctors about my issue, but no-one really had answers until one doctor mentioned that maybe it is just in my mind. I decided to find a ‘mind-doctor’ and found Ghitta and this Vaginismus Treatment Therapy she offered.
You see, I was in an arranged marriage. My new husband is a really nice guy, but everything happened so fast. We don’t really know each other and our parents had us wed and move in together. We tried to make things work and since there’s pressure on us starting a family too, we had to somehow start trying.
It’s been uncomfortable to say the least with us not knowing each other, but it’s been excruciating for me as my muscles were contracting and I just physically couldn’t do it. Eventually, after finding Ghitta and understanding why this is happening things started to become easier. I’ve done 3 sessions with Ghitta and every time it got easier and easier with my husband. Besides the fact that we still need to get to know each other, I feel very comfortable with him and slowly but surely I am able to have intimacy without pain. It is so much easier and better than when we started and some days completely pain-free. I guess time will tell, but so far Ghitta has made a huge difference for me. Thank you. 

S. Rehman, 2013, London

I have been seeing Ghitta on and off for the past 4 years for anxiety as well as other issues. I mentioned to her that I was having relationship problems after we got married and that I am experiencing painful intercourse. During our sessions, Ghitta was able to figure out what the real reason is for my painful intercourse. We had a lovely wedding, but then everything changed afterward. My new husband decided on the honeymoon – which was a sailing trip. Just the two of us for 3 months. Everywhere we went, everything we did, anything we saw – he made the decision. I had no say in when I wanted to relax or go to explore. No say in where we should go or what we should do. I thought this was supposed to be our special time – together – planning our future. I didn’t realise it at the time, but sex became really painful and it wasn’t until 7 months later, when Ghitta did sessions with me, that we discovered where it came from. I am now at a much better place. I realised there was a lot to be worked on with my relationship and Ghitta helped me to deal with my relationship issues as well as my vaginismus. My husband and I went through a lot and our relationship nearly didn’t make it, but we are still together and strnger than ever. You literally saved my marriage. Thank you Ghitta. 

H. Smith, 2017, London